Saturday, February 23, 2008

I PASSED MY DRIVING TEST!

YAY! *does the dance of joy, Perfect Strangers-style*

i accumulated 14 demerit points during the test, 12 of which were while IN the circuit - Failure to confirm safety during 1) directional change [-4], 2) vertical parking [-4] and 3) parallel parking [-4].

on the other hand, while on the road, i positioned my car incorrectly at the junction (did not move far enough into the yellow box for the right turn) and failed to overtake when necessary (in my defence, there was a really expensive-looking Merc in front of me in the filter lane who decided he didn't want to turn right after all so he moved out but part of his car was still in my lane and i didn't think i had enough clearance space to overtake him without scratching his car OR inching into the lane of oncoming traffic). Thankfully these mistakes were "free" (as my instructor said, "you get to make mistakes like this for FREE" - cue excited expression in voice). the mistake that i did make which cost me 2 points was "failure to use appropriate gear". which in this case, not changing up to 4th gear. even though the fastest i went was probably only 50km/h. apparently the tester said that once i hit 40km/h i should have used 4th already. :(

BUT IT DOESN'T MATTER! BECAUSE I PASSED!

and am excitedly awaiting the arrival of my photo-card in the post in 2 4* weeks!

*due to some system upgrade...

Sunday, February 17, 2008

My Funny Valentine

as the song goes, "each day is Valentine's Day".
my "sweet, comic","looks are laughable, unphotographable" and "figure less than Greek" Valentine romanced me at the swanky Changi airport during his 5 hour transit last night.you really make me smile with my heart.

Saturday, February 16, 2008

Ahh... Tony! Barbra! my pals!


Smile, though your heart is aching.
Smile, even though it's breaking.
When there are clouds in the sky, you get by if you smile.
Through your fears and sorrow, smile.
And maybe tomorrow you'll see the sun come shining through for you.
Light up your face with gladness.
Hide every trace of sadness, although a tear may be ever so near.
That's the time you must keep trying.
Smile, whats the use of crying
You'll find that life is still worthwhile, if u just smile.

That's the time you must keep on trying.
Smile, what's the use of crying.
You'll find that life is still worthwhile, if you just smile.
Smile.
Just smile.

Friday, February 15, 2008

hmm... interesting... (good news for me?)

UK bosses fed up with self-centred diva grads

Gen Y grads: Big headed, boastful, spoilt

4 February 2008


THEY want everything to fall into their laps.

And they boast about how tech-savvy, how educated and how much in demand they are.

Meet the Generation Y graduates - those born after 1982 - successors to Gen X. who were known for being cynical and disaffectionate.

If you're an employer in the UK, you probably wouldn't want to meet this particular bunch - the ones many employers are labelling 'graduate divas'.

They're the ones who lack initiative, over-sell themselves, and walk into an interview room chirping 'you all right, mate?'

A report in The Daily Mail says bosses in the UK are looking overseas for staff with a stronger work ethic in a bid to avoid self-centred, fickle and greedy employees.

The article comes after a report from the Association of Graduate Recruiters (AGR) that revealed employers' recruitment difficulties on the low calibre of graduates.

Those in Gen Y are said to be career-orientated, but many bosses find them less than satisfactory. As a result, a quarter of employers now actively market vacancies abroad.

More than two-thirds of the 217employers polled predicted recruitment difficulties in the comingyear - up from 55.4 per cent a yearago.

And last year, nearly half had to leave prized graduate jobs open, even though universities turned out record numbers of students.

Some Gen Y graduates reportedly lack literacy and numeracy skills. Others present themselves poorly.

According to the report, based on responses from employers in investment banks, law and accountancy firms, some Gen Y graduates lack initiative and expect to be pandered to.

In one case, a new recruit to a transport company was heard on the phone saying to his mum: 'I have got to go to London tomorrow and they haven't even told me how to get there.'

MrCarl Gilleard, AGR chief executive, said: 'The employer threw up her hands in anger.

'Here was someone working for a transport company, was 21, spent three years at university and who was aggrieved because he hadn't been given a detailed map.'

Mr Gilleard added: 'There is a sense among Generation Y that they want it all and they want it now. Generation Y is me, me, me, but the employer thinks, no, it's us, us, us.

'I think there is a wake-up call... As far as graduates are concerned, it's really important they understand the rules of the game.'

The demand for top graduates is illustrated by the report's finding that the number of vacancies is at a 10-year high and is expected to rise.

The report also said that graduates are often seen as 'divas... who expect everything to fall into their laps'.

It noted: 'A quarter (of employers) praise the 'strong work ethic and desire to succeed' of overseas graduates.'

Mr Gilleard added: 'This may have wider long-term implications...and both employers and graduates may have to amend their expectations.'

Perhaps it's time for fresh grads, from any generation for that matter, to stop thinking that it's all about them.


source: The New Paper

Sunday, February 10, 2008

interesting perspective

if you trust a hawker to bring you your order, how much more should we trust God to give us what is ours through His sacrifice?

Thursday, February 07, 2008

what i learnt from this year's Chinese New Year

i have my father's genes when it comes to drinking - because if i had my mother's, i'd turn red really quickly. according to my uncle, my grandfather and my great-grandfather were like that as well.

phew.

Wednesday, February 06, 2008

Surreal

you came and went - it feels like such a dream. when i woke up this morning it felt as if the past few days never happened and if they did, they went by too fast.

much too fast... i'm wondering how long reality will take to sink in... that our short time together,
has already passed and it's a few months till the next one...

Tuesday, January 29, 2008

i can't get enough of you baby...

yes it's true... baby yes it's tru-ue...


Josh is coming to spend the next few days with me so please excuse me for being MIA (online, answering e-mails, meeting up...) since i have absolutely no idea when i will next get to see him (it could even be as far away as Christmas).

i will be "back" on Monday.

Sunday, January 27, 2008

driving lesson anecdotes a.k.a. words of wisdom from the driving instructor

"your tester is an old man, probably in his 50s. he needs to be reassured that you are a safe driver because if he is not, he will not want to pass you. remember - he probably has a weak heart."

"erm, your left blind spot ah, is virtually non-existent (translation: you hardly check your left blind spot) and your tester sits on the left so he will notice it more. and it's harder for girls with ponytails? do you know why? because when you turn your head your ponytail will flick so if he doesn't see a flick from the corner of his eyes he will know you didn't check."

"why are you in such a rush to get through the course? the slower you take, the less things you have to do to fill up the 40min test time so you should go slow. then you will have less chance of losing points."

"sorry if it seems like i am dosing off. because i am. but your driving is pretty safe so good for me lor."

"remember, it's all about wayang... give the tester the impression that you are a safe driver... although you SHOULD also be a safe driver, not just act it."

oh what a beautiful day!

woke up to a lovely surprise today - Josh made a surprise visit to my house! see, he's en route to KL from London and had a 5 hour transit. complication was that i had already booked my driving lessons and could not cancel so we figured, nevermind, i'll see him when i do on Wednesday.

but he decided to get out of the airport and catch a cab to my place early in the morning simply to say "hi". and on the cab to my place he was getting worried i might have left for my driving lesson already (thank goodness i am the queen of maximising sleep time - and only wake up at the latest time possible).

despite only having half an hour together, it was very worth it! :)

oh and to top that all off, Bob Fitts led worship today - and there was extended praise and worship after the benediction since it was the last service of the day. wheee!

it's so bad it's good!

i feel like a total junkie now.

Moon lent me the ENTIRE series of Gilmore Girls. ENTIRE. SERIES.

it's like caffeine. administered via IV.

and i have a 3 1/2 hr driving lesson tomorrow morning.

like Lorelai would say, "COFFEEEEEEEEE..."

Wednesday, January 23, 2008

All around the world, let the praise begin

there's something very exciting knowing that you've got a prayer buddy halfway around the world and that you are both standing in faith together on matters close to your heart.

this week i was reminded that in all things, God will provide and that thought is enough to keep us going strong through the tough times.

Friday, January 18, 2008

Earworms

Main Entry: earworm2
Part of Speech: n
Definition: a song or tune that gets stuck in one's mind and repeats as if on a tape; also written ear-worm, ear worm; also called cognitive itch, sticky tune

earworm for the day was 'Somewhere' from West Side Story - somehow my dreams seem to have a soundtrack and last night, it was 'Somewhere' and everything looked blurrily Technicolour-ish. sort of like in the film where all the colours were so rich and seemed to bleed into each other.

and speaking of earworms and dreams, i realised i havent mentioned any of my weird dreams recently. the oddest in recent memory has got the works (not to mention the very random pop culture references)! let's just say that there was Stephen Collins (as Rev. Eric Camden from Seventh Heaven), Swan Lake on Ice, Amy Winehouse (?!? - exactly what i was thinking when she popped up in my dream) and some very Paris Geller-esque behaviour (references to Harvard included). and soundtrack for that? 'When the Doves Cry' (version by Quindon Traver).

ah but perhaps the weirdest earworm this week must be 'Count on me Singapore'. i rest my case...

Sunday, January 13, 2008

i am amused at all this talk in the air

about weddings, ever since word got out that someone got engaged. (congrats again!).

there's a buzz of excitement and wistful sighs once the story is repeated to the umpteenth person.

makes you feel a tad old but very grown-up indeed!

Saturday, January 05, 2008

people watching on the train

a while ago i was on my way home from a driving lesson and sitting across from me was a teenager/boy in his early 20s who was solving the Rubik's Cube. and not like normal people do but in a puzzle-wizard sort of way. like speed-Rubik's-Cubing. amazing! (and i feel it was totally justifiable to be staring!) He was twisting the cubes randomly about 10 times and took only about 15 seconds to solve it. once in a while when he got stuck, he'd look at the pattern intensely and miraculously figure out what previous step he did wrong so that 1-2-3 rotations later, the colours all lined up.

GEEK!

yesterday on the way to work i was standing next to a lady reading a guide book on Paris. ahh... i was completely reading over her shoulder (alas! she was tall. but she was holding up her book pretty high - perhaps to show off that she was possibly travelling to Paris in the near future?). looking at pictures of gay Paris (no, not that kind of gay! it's the phrase commonly used to describe Paris - very Hollywood...), i imagined myself back there, and reminiscing about the good times spent wandering the streets of Paris (and lounging in the gardens, browsing the museums) made the journey to work so much shorter.

Thursday, January 03, 2008

Oh how clever

when i was a student in the UK, i applied for tax-relief on the interest paid by my bank to me. every once in a while they send me a form that i have to complete (which includes a section that i have to fill regarding the number of taxable days i physically spent in the UK in the past few tax years) for them to verify that i am still eligible for it.

i recently received this form again. clever me made a note the last time to save all my calculations somewhere since every time i get the form i end up manually counting the days (it gets tiresome, especially since i travelled a fair bit). however, the not-so-clever part of me forgot where i saved my calculations. i spent quite a bit of time searching all my hard-drives for the document (frustration set in after 5 mins) to find nothing. good thing i spoke to Josh (to check if i had saved it on his desktop) because he remembered that i had posted it on my previous blog so that i wouldnt lose the file/info.

genius me, oh what a genius.

so now the form is filled and will be posted tomorrow! all for the sake of a few more pounds...

Tuesday, January 01, 2008

By faith, I declare the year ahead blessed

'Free' by Hillsong United
From the album 'To The Ends Of The Earth'

Would you believe me if I said
that we are the ones who can make the change
in the world today?
Would you believe me if i said
that all of your dreams in your heart
can come true today?
Would you believe me if i said
that life could be all that you want it to be today?

Chorus
And if had wings I would fly
'cause all that I need, You are
And if the world caved in around me
to You I'd still hold on
'Cause You're all that I believe
and the one that created me
Jesus, because of You
I'm free


Would you believe me if I said
that God can make miracles happen today?
Would you believe me if I said
that you don't need to wait for the answers before
you step out in faith?
Would you believe me if I said
that nothing is ever impossible for God?

Bridge
Just live your life with God inside
you won't regret one moment of it
and give all that you can for God
For God

Friday, December 28, 2007

Ice Kachang reprise

the past few days, i've found myself having lots of ice kachang (blame it on the weather and my family's choice of food for meals). and everytime my parents suggest we go for ice kachang, the song (lyrics have been previously posted) pops into my head, and i start to sing it to myself, much to the partial amusement of my mom.

it's catchy, it's funny - i'm spreading the joy!

Thursday, December 27, 2007

how do you explain the concept of happiness?

over coffee today, R talked about how there is nothing really to be happy about, that success only brings feelings of relief that you've not failed.

i disagreed, saying that there are many things in life that he/people should be happy about, not just merely relieved for. his reply was "what then?". and it took me some time to answer that question. i guess i've never really thought about why i feel happy. i just feel it. there are so many things that make me happy. and happy as in 'brings a smile to my face' rather than 'not sad'. my answer was 'friends and family'. he said, 'but you can't choose family'. i replied, 'you can take steps to making things better'.

it amazes me how pessimistic and disillusioned with life a young person can be. or maybe i'm one of the abnormal ones. i'm happy with my life. genuinely happy. i've got a great family (and even though they may annoy me at times, there's something warm about being with family), a boyfriend who wants to be with me even though he is miles away (thousands, actually), a job where i'm trusted with a reasonable amount of responsibility - a job i rather enjoy doing, friends who are quirky and loveable. life isnt perfect but hey, i dont need it to be perfect to be happy. in fact i like it the way it is, idiosyncratic and all.

Wednesday, December 26, 2007

'tis the season for giving

this year, my brother gave me a Coach key-holder. my immediate reaction was, "is it because i carry my keys on a mini swiss army knife key-chain?"

"it's a weapon you know!"

i stare at the key-holder. he looks at me and says, "i don't think your swiss army knife will be able to fit in it."

"oh." and i look crestfallen.

"i still haven't gotten you a present. what do you want?"

"right now i just want a tick-free dog."

"oh."


there are some things that money can't buy. for everything else, there's Mastercard?